I used to be able to pick things. I believe my wife was able to do so at one time as well. But I blame the kids ... they have removed our ability to decide on anything because they always have a way to look at us and say "I knew you were going to pick that. I don't want to do that." It could be a decision like "ice cream for dinner" or "sleepovers with your friends" or "stay up however late you want watching movies" and they will find something better that we should have picked.
Is it wrong to be looking forward (I mean really REALLY looking forward) to the days of an empty nest?! Yeah, you're probably right ... I'll just "enjoy it while it lasts." *sigh*
So ... um ... I was ... wondering ... what do YOU want to do? :)